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When people think of character development and depictions of real-world abuse and trauma, almost every singleBaldur’s Gate 3fan will think of Astarion. Not to discredit Astarion’s story in the slightest – it’s truly masterful writing – but a lot of people don’t give Gale’s story the chance it deserves. He is complex, depicts issues that often go overlooked when men speak up, and not to mention his romance just makes me feel warm and fuzzy whenever I go down that path (which is every single playthrough). So buckle in, because I am going to try and convince you to give Gale’s story a proper try, even if it does mean romancing a complete nerd.
Sole mates
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Happy anniversary(Image credit: Larian Studios)As Baldur’s Gate 3 hits its first anniversary, here’s why we’ve poured a cumulative 3,550 hours into Larian’s world-beating RPG
Happy anniversary
(Image credit: Larian Studios)As Baldur’s Gate 3 hits its first anniversary, here’s why we’ve poured a cumulative 3,550 hours into Larian’s world-beating RPG
(Image credit: Larian Studios)

As Baldur’s Gate 3 hits its first anniversary, here’s why we’ve poured a cumulative 3,550 hours into Larian’s world-beating RPG
A lot of people see Mr. Dekarios as a clingy young man, with a penchant for eating your magical boots. But it’s notentirelyhis fault. When the game first launched, a bug sadly put a lot of people off exploring the Wizard of Waterdeeps storyline, myself included. Larian admitted that thecharacter approval ratings being so low were a bugand Gale should never have wanted to be yours simply because you breathed within a 60ft radius of him. It was a scar that would take a while to heal in the fandom, and a lot of people to this day still see Gale as the easiest companion to romance because of this. It put so many people off, and a lot of my friends have told me they haven’t romanced or even wanted Gale in their party because of this overbearing introduction.
It’s a shame really, as Gale’s backstory is just as turbulent and detailed as the other companions (perhaps except Wyll, who was woefully underdeveloped in my opinion - but that’s a matter for another day). His story has so many layers, and complexities that people are just not willing to give the time of day. He is the only companion I see where people don’t really talk about the deeper issues. Everyone just seems to take him at face value of a wizard with delusions of grandeur.
He’s just a boy
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One thing people seem to overlook is that Gale is in fact a survivor of an abusive, turbulent relationship, where power dynamics were never going to be on his side. I mean, this man literally dated a god. You’re never going to be on an equal footing with a god.
All of the gods in this universe are selfish and cruel, but Mystra took advantage of a young human male, stringing him along with promises and showing him powerful magic only to tell him he wasn’t good enough to have it. Mystra took him as a Chosen, initiated a romantic relationship with him and twisted his views on not only romance, but himself. Gale even admits that magic is his life, so it’s obvious why Mystra could so easily become his entire world.
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In Act 3’s romance scene Gale truly believes he has to be a god to be “the best version of himself”. If you tell him you like him as he is, just a regular mortal man, he doesn’t believe you, asking: “You would really prefer me as I am?” It’s heartbreaking. It’s so obvious Mystra left a mark which made him believe he was never good enough and would never achieve greatness.
Come as you are
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There’s a lot more to delve into with Gale, and I could talk endlessly about my favorite wizard. I haven’t even mentioned the fact he became a hermit, which obviously affected the way he interacts with your Tav at the start of the game, or that he was ready to end his life to appease his ex-girlfriend.
Gale’s trauma really hit home with me, and the fact there was representation of something I have personally experienced in my own life in a video game was a moment I’ll never forget. When I realized what Gale’s story was about, it hit me like a sack of bricks. Astarion hit home with many sexual abuse survivors, Shadowheart shone a light on religious trauma, and Gale offers representation for those who have felt suicidal and unwanted, people with agoraphobia, loneliness, and grooming victims.
Gale made me realize we are not the traumas we have faced, but how we come out of it at the other end. We can be content with justbeing. We don’t need to prove ourselves a god –just being here, alive, is enough. “I used to believe Mystra’s forgiveness was worth dying for,” says Gale, as he sits in a boat floating in the Outer Planes, with Elwyn, my Cleric of Ilmater sitting opposite him. “But I was wrong. You showed me just how much I have to live for.”
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